Missy on NiteFlirt F.A.Q.s


Q: How old are you?
A: As of the date of this post, I am 32 years old. Born March 15, 1980 (yes… the Ides of March!), which makes me not only doomed but also a pisces. It’s a good thing I don’t put much stock into superstitions or astrological signs.

Q: Where are you from?
A: I grew up in Washington (State). Spent 10+ years in the Sacramento, CA area and am currently living back in Washington to be near family. Someday in the not-to-distant future though I would like to move back down to CA, or at least somewhere warmer and with much less rain.

Q: Is that really you in the pictures on your NiteFlirt profile?
A: Yes, that’s really me! I do cam shows as well as phone calls, so it’s pretty much a requirement to put the real me on my profile and listings. It would be pretty hard to fool somebody on cam if that wasn’t really me.

Q: So what makes you different from all the other cam and phone sex girls out there?
A: There are probably a lot of really cool girls on NiteFlirt. Honestly I haven’t spent much time browsing other listings on here but I have spent a fair amount of time watching other girls on some of the other cam sites. From what I have seen from so many cam girls, I would say that the biggest thing that sets me apart from a huge majority is that I try to stay as real as possible. That’s the short answer. If you want a more detailed answer, check out my post here.

Q: Do you ever do hardcore videos or cam shows?
A: Yes, I have somebody who I can do hardcore videos and/or live cam shows with. We have a couples listing on NiteFlirt for cam shows, although it’s much harder to arrange for both of us to be available at the same time. If we aren’t available at the time though, we do have some pretty hot blowjob and fucking videos you can purchase right from our profile page.
Check out our profile on NiteFlirt: SlimDuo

Q: Do you do custom videos or photos?
A: I used to offer custom videos and photo sets on NiteFlirt but found that between my job and the time I do spend on cams, I really don’t have much time to work on custom requests. When I realized how long it was taking me to get them done and in the hands of the person who ordered it, I stopped accepting custom requests… at least until I can cut down my hours at my regular job. However, I DO offer custom videos and photo sets  for certain membership types – you can read more about that here.

You are welcome to request a custom video and/or photos, but I can’t promise I will accept your request at this time. I will do them as my free time allows, so please keep in mind that even if I do agree to a custom video or photo set for you, it might take a couple of weeks until I actually have it ready for you.

You are always welcome to send me suggestions for videos you’d like to see either for sale on NiteFlirt or here on my site. I love to hear your ideas about what you think is really hot, things you’d really enjoy seeing, and I always appreciate feedback.

Q: Do you have an Amazon wishlist?
A: Yes! And I LOVE to get surprises! If there’s a particular outfit you’d like to see me wear for our next cam show together, or maybe a special toy you would like to watch me use in a custom video for you, feel free to find it on Amazon and send me the link. I’ll add it to my wishlist so you can order it for me. Can’t wait to show it off for you!
Missy’s Amazon WishList

Q: Do you take Paypal?
A: No, sorry. Even though NiteFlirt’s fees are quite a bit higher than what Paypal would charge, you have to remember that NiteFlirt provides the traffic and a safe and confidential way to communicate with each other. I think that’s well worth the fees they take… don’t you?

Q: Do you prefer men or women?
A: Men, definitely. I think women are beautiful (for the most part) and very much appreciate a woman’s body. But I like cock. I do occasionally play with women but for the most part if I’m going to bring somebody else home with me, it’s going to be a man.

Q: What kinds of things are you into sexually?
A: There’s not really any particular kinks or fetishes that I’m really into. I’ve always considered myself very open-minded but there are still a lot of things I don’t know much about. I have to admit… until I started NiteFlirt I had always thought I’ve had a pretty fair amount of sexual experience. There are so many things I’ve learned through the people I’ve met on that site that I never even knew existed! It made me realize that I’m actually much more “vanilla” that I had originally thought. That being said, I’ve discovered some things that I am extremely intrigued by and can’t wait to learn more about. You can find out more about that on another post of mine here.

As for the things I enjoy the most… well that really should be a post of it’s own. So I’ll just leave it at what is probably my very most favorite thing – a threesome with two guys. I consider myself fortunate to be with a man who also enjoys that – it’s a huge turn-on for him to watch me getting hammered by another guy, and especially if that other guy is very well hung. But I definitely wouldn’t consider us to be a cuckold couple by any means. Part of the excitement I get from being with another man is seeing the lust and desire in my own man’s eyes while he watches his woman getting stuffed with strange cock. That’s something I hope to always be able to share with him, and I have no desire to run around with other men without my own hunny by my side.

You can find out more about my sexual turn-ons and fantasies in a separate post here.

Q: Do you have any turn-offs?
A: My single biggest turn-off when it comes to men is cockiness. I do like a certain level of self-confidence in men but let’s face it… the line between confidence and arrogance is not a fine one. There’s nothing wrong with being sure of yourself but seriously, you are not better than most of the people around you so don’t try to give the impression that you are. I can see right through your bullshit and I have no tolerance for it, so if you want to hang out with me (even just on the phone or cams), leave your arrogance at home.

Rudeness, inconsideration in general, single-mindedness, and hairy, ungroomed pubes are just a few of the other things that are instant libido-killers for me. Oh yes, and people who try to act like something they aren’t: wanna-be pornstars, wiggers, pseudo-intellectuals are just a few examples of things I see all too often and they really get my blood boiling. Although I’m not sure if they would fall into the class of “turn-off” as much as just major irritations.

Q: Do you have any sexual fantasies that you haven’t yet tried?
A: If I had to pick only one, the one fantasy I keep going back to is this: My hunny would select a man of his choosing. I wouldn’t know who he is, what he looks like, or basically anything about him. I would be blindfolded on my bed and this unknown man would come in. He and my hunny would basically have their way with me while I lay completely in the dark, trying to guess who is doing what to me… who does that tongue belong to? which cock is that trying to slide it’s way into my pussy? The unknown would drive me absolutely crazy with excitement.

I do have on predicament with that scenario though – I would likely want the entire thing video taped so that I can watch it at a later time. My quandary is this: would I WANT to watch it after the fact? Or would I be better off leaving it all to my imagination? What if the reality was not nearly as good as the scene that plays out in my imagination? Would it be better to know or not know? What would you do?

Q: What’s the craziest thing you’ve ever done sexually?
A: I once tied my hunny’s hands and feet to stripper poles on a stage and gave him a blowjob to completion in front of a room full of strangers. That might not sound all that crazy to you, but considering we are talking about somebody who is, believe it or not, NOT a fan of being the center of attention and also quiet shy in a room full of strangers, this was quite a leap for me.

Q: What non-sexual activities do you enjoy? Do you have any hobbies?
A: I’m actually kind of a home-body. The older I get, the more comfortable I feel in my own home. I actually really enjoy things like jigsaw puzzles, word puzzles, reading… things that most people would probably consider very boring. When the weather allows though, I do love a good hike or bike ride and am often late to work because I’ve been out salmon fishing. I enjoy bowling and playing pool, but if I had to choose ONE thing that I most enjoy, it would definitely be scuba diving. Travelling would be right up there at the top of my list, and both are things that I don’t get to do nearly as often as I’d like, due to lack of time or money (or both). I would be in heaven though if I could take two awesome scuba vacations every year – that would be the life!

Q: Is there anything you won’t do or talk about on cam or phones?
A: Insert the usual things here: bestiality, under-age play, scat, vomit. Most other things I can think of are fair game, although I’m not big into humiliation. I understand that a lot of men are into that and I do try to play along, but degrading and being mean to people, especially people I don’t know the first thing about, does not come naturally to me and honestly I don’t understand the need to be humiliated or made to feel like less of a human being. In order for me to be good at something, I feel like I need to have at least some basic understanding of it. Try as I might, I just don’t understand that.

Q: Do you do anal in your cam sessions?
A: I do sometimes. There are days when I just won’t, days that I will but am not really into it, and days when I can really get off on it. It all depends on my mood that day… so if you’re craving some anal play, you’d be best off to get ahold of me first on skype or NiteFlirt email to find out what my anal mood is that day. I am always up for lubed up fingers teasing my ass though… I love to close my eyes and pretend I have a nice wet tongue caressing my bung :)

Q: Is this your job? Or something you do just for fun?
A: A little bit of both, but mostly something I do for fun. I do have a regular full-time job but it barely pays the bills, so the extra money I make on cams is a nice bonus. Mostly I do this as an outlet to explore my sexual fantasies and desires, and also I work from home and really miss the social interaction. I really enjoy meeting new and fascinating people through NiteFlirt.

Q: So why don’t you just quit your regular job and do NiteFlirt full time?
A: It’s sort of complicated. That’s ultimately my long-term goal and I would love to have more free time to spend on cams, but the honest truth is that I am a little worried that if I turn NiteFlirt into a full-time job and my only source of income, it will become just that – a JOB. Something I feel like I MUST do rather than wanting to do. There’s a little bit of fear in the back of my mind that once it becomes a job (and therefore a requirement), I may not enjoy it like I do now. I guess that’s something I will never really know though until I make that leap.

Please feel free to submit your own questions if there’s something specific you’d like to know about me. I will always answer them as soon as possible, and I may even add them to my existing Q & A list!

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